Answers part 2

Ok This came out a lot differently when I typed it up, but transferring the answers from my desktop to my blog I lost color and the text came out different. But here are your answers...good questions fellas

Greg
1. What is your proudest achievement thus far? Graduating college in four years, without the assistance of summer school and/or winter session, has been my proudest achievement thus far. That was my goal going into college and despite some bumps, I did it.
2. What is the one biggest thing you would like to change about yourself? I want a bigger dick. Ok, that was a little shallow, but that’s what I want to change.
3. What is the biggest thing you love/hate about me? The answer to both parts of that question is the same. Your honesty. Sometimes I hate the fact that you give your opinion on everything, but I don’t think we would be friends if you were different. I love you for your honesty and your heart.
4. Do you think I should create a blog of questions too? Yes
Even though we’ve known each other for quite a few years, do you feel like you know me? Yes, however, I do think there are things about you that I don’t know. But we all have things in our closest.

“A” aka selfish ass motherfucker…lmao

Why did you think I would make a good boyfriend? You liked football that was all I needed. Plus, throughout our relationship we became better friends, isn’t that what your boyfriend should be, a good friend?
What’s my favorite sexual position? Ok I’m not sure, but I will say that you enjoyed having sex in the mirror (probably had something to do with you being able to look at yourself).
Who are the six men I find the most attractive?
pornstar: Brian Pumper (jacked up his last name but you know who I’m talking about)
basketball: I’m not sure
football: Jamaal Lewis (can you finally admit his career is over)
r&b singer: not sure but I know you want Usher’s abs
actor: will smith
rapper/producer: puffy
What was on your mind the first time:
You danced with me: “I thought he said he was a top.”
You cooked for me: “This is actually good. I think I’m in love with him.”
You told me about Darnell: “That nigga really fucked him up.”
You put your tongue in my ass: “What is he doing? Does this mean he wants to be with me?”
You got naked: “He better not fart, I don’t care if he is still drunk.”
First time we kissed: “When we sober up will we regret this? Do I even care?”
Did you love me because of who I really am or because it’s a challenge to get inside my mind and heart? Both actually. Getting to know who you are was a challenge, one I enjoyed and accepted the challenge of. Falling in love with the person you were and I thought you could become, was my reward.
Do you believe once you meet your soulmate that they will always shape the decisions you make about every other mate? Yes. I don’t believe your soulmate will ever leave your life. I would hope that if you find your soulmate there will be no other mates. But if there are other mates, they are only there to improve us for the return of our soulmate.
Most men in this homo lifestyle have a troubled or non-existant relationship with their father. Did the relationship with your father have an effect on your sexuality, and the choices you make regarding the men you date? Yes or no? Explain. NO. I’ve always known that I was attracted to the same sex and never let my father’s opinion alter what I wanted.
If you won the mega million jackpot for 250 million dollars, which three friends would receive the most expensive gifts? And What Would those gifts be? Mike would get a hooked up bus. It would be a party bus that would revival John Maddens bus. No passengers and it would not look like a NJtransit bus. I would buy Greg a house and car. Nothing huge, but something of his own. I would get both of them a gas card with an undisclosed amount on each card. Then, I would get Matt an all expense paid trip to NYC. I would put him up in a 5 star hotel, take him to the hot spots to eat, buy him a date if we don’t find one the first night and just show him a good time.
One nite in your car early this year you said someone told you I was a hotboy, who was it? And where did they get that info from? Not sure but it may have been Dre.
Out of all of your ex’s which one you were in love with the most? And why? Lamar. But what made his love the greatest is it became something different once we were over. I loved him like a brother and at that point there was nothing I wouldn’t do for him.
Fuzzy
I know that you and “A” have had a past, if he decided that he was ready for a relationship would you give him a 2nd chance? Yes
How long do you expect to be in this relationship you are currently in? I hope I’m wrong but it’s starting to look like we won’t be together for long.
If you break up what do you think will be the cause of the break up? Even though I don’t think sex is a big part of a relationship, the lack of sexual attention might be the end of us. I’m not looking to mess around as much as pops and his son (those in the crew know who I’m talking about) but more than we have now. I think he can go once a month and be happy, that in no one is a bad thing, but it’s just not me. He is a good guy but masturbating while in a relationship is just not my thing.
If Shawn and I ever broke up, would we still be friends? I hope we will remain friends. I really enjoy your company.
When you masturbate, describe exactly what you think about and how you act until the final act of completion. I’m usually watching porn so I’m focused on the screen and just stroking until I bust. No thought is really put into it.
Name one extremely freaky/kinky thing you have done, or willing to do? Thinking on this question I realize I’m not as freaky as I thought. I guess the 3some I was in. It really shouldn’t have happened and maybe I should have gotten his name before my friend and I had sex with him…lol.
I want to organize a sex party (all the gatherings almost always end up that way anyway). I guess you want to know if I would organize a sex party (I know that’s what you are asking since I asked), yes as long as I don’t have to participate and it’s not in my house.
What will it take for you to finally spend the night at one of my sleepovers? It will take two things. A lot of alcohol and my own bed in an air conditioned room.
What will it take for you to go out to see a movie? A really good scary movie. It has to be a movie that I really want to see.
Is there anything that you will not do for any amount of money? Actually there are a few things that I won’t do. Incest and having sex with an animal are top on the list of things I won’t do. I know if I sit here and really think I probably can come up with some other things but I have other questions to answer.

Ponoono
How is Fuzzy’s number 7 a question? He was rushing but I knew what he meant. But should he organize one? Might as well organize a sex party. Hey we have the perfect game to change any party into a sexy party. Any one want to see if they can play without being turned on?

Mikey
If you can go back in time which moment in your life would you wanna relive? Why? The day I told Lamar I never wanted to speak to him again. I wish I wouldn’t have done that. I miss him terribly and I can’t shake the feeling that he isn’t doing well.
What three friends would you wanna be stranded on an island with? Why? Mike, Antwan and Daniel. I need you and Antwan there for entertainment. Either jokes or arguments, putting you two together is funny. Daniel can make something out of nothing so I know I wouldn’t be hungry or get bored with eating fish every day.
What is it about chips ahoy cookies you love so much? They are the best tasting cookies told in a bag/box. I’ve grown up eating them. I’ve tried all other brands of chocolate chip cookies and they don’t taste good at all to me.
What do you think is the best thing about being in love? Now the worst? I think the best thing about being in love is having that person that you can be yourself around. That person that will accept you for your flaws. The best thing about love is being naked (and not in the physical) without any shame. The worst thing about being in love is being in a relationship with someone and being the only one in love. Giving all of oneself to someone and getting nothing in return but lies and half truths. Being bare in front of someone while they are completely clothed.
Name one thing that you don’t want for your birthday? Now one thing that you do want? I don’t want pussy…lol. One thing I want. I guess the same thing I’ve had the past two years, a good time surrounded by my friends. I would love for that to include Lamar but I realize that’s next to impossible.
If you had to choose between me and “A” who lives and who dies, what would your answer be? Why? I’m mad you even had to ask. You would live. Hey, you are my Mikey, my silent half.
If the opportunity came, would you still wanna be roommates? Yes, of all my friends I think you would give me the most space as a roommate. You get me when I’m in my mood and truly can take my attitude at its worst.
What do you think I would benefit from by going to church? Support. Think church would give you the opportunity to see that no matter what you are going through, you can make it. It will give you hope.
If things don’t work out with “B” are you gonna go back to your old ways or just take a break from dating? I’m going to get back on my horse and take on whatever life brings me.
What would you say/do if I told you that I found out what your middle name is? I would be upset because you probably did something underhanded to get it. Then I would make you promise to never use it or tell anyone. That would be key, because it really could end a friendship.

Kensilo
Out of all of your friends which one is the most influential in your life and why? My friend Matt. Despite having a lot of heartbreaks, bumps in the rode, hardship, he continues to have a positive attitude. I look at him and think, if he can go through all that he has gone through, I can handle the little things that are going on in my life.
What are some of your bad/good traits? I think one of my worst traits is I don’t think before I speak sometimes. I will say exactly what is on my mind when I’m upset or very passionate about something and I’m not bothered by who I may offend or hurt. Then there is my attitude. When I’m mad I tend to want others around me to hurt also. The saying, “misery loves company,” is definitely true. One of my best traits is I have a big heart. I always want to do the right thing, whether it’s for a friend or a stranger. I believe we should do unto others as we would want other to do unto us. I believe in right and wrong, equality, and thus I try to be a fair person and treat everyone the same. Try to set limits/rules that are black and white. Think everyone should be held to the standards. My favorite trait and the one I am most proud to admit is I’m honest. I try to be very honest with people. Sometimes I may scale it back in the interest of someone’s feelings, but generally, you get the answer to your question very “matter of fact.”
Where do you see yourself in the near future? Honestly I’m not sure anymore. I’m believing God will bless me with a new or different career opportunity. I’m bored with my current job and it’s not paying enough, so I’m just waiting on God to send me somewhere else.
What is the best thing going on right now in your life? My nephew. He is doing a lot better in school and is shaping up as a man. He finally has a job (ok he is only 16 but he needs to do something productive other than just football) and passing all his classes in high school. Sometimes I feel like a proud parent.